NFL tight end Darren Waller and WNBA star Kelsey Plum ended their marriage in April 2024, after only 13 months of marriage. Their high-profile relationship, often dubbed a Vegas power couple romance, dissolved amid career demands and the challenges brought on by a sudden long-distance marriage.
Their marriage began in Las Vegas on March 4, 2023, but a trade sending Waller to the New York Giants just ten days later forced the couple onto opposite coasts, ultimately straining their relationship and leading to their formal divorce filing on April 23, 2024.
Background on Darren Waller and Kelsey Plum
Darren Charles Waller, born September 13, 1992, is an American professional football player from Acworth, Georgia. Standing 6’5″ tall, he has earned an estimated net worth between $5 million and $10 million. Waller attended North Cobb High School and later the Georgia Institute of Technology.
Kelsey Christine Plum, born August 24, 1994, is a WNBA basketball player from Poway, California. She plays for the Los Angeles Sparks and previously spent eight seasons with the Las Vegas Aces. Plum, measuring 5’8″, has a net worth estimated at $2 million. Her collegiate career was at the University of Washington, where she became the all-time leading scorer.
Both athletes share a Christian faith and are African-American (Waller) and Irish descent (Plum), respectively. Their relationship combined two prominent sports figures both hailing from competitive athletic backgrounds.
How Their Relationship Evolved
Their relationship began discreetly around 2021, initially kept private from the public eye. Fans first noticed Waller at several of Plum’s Las Vegas Aces games throughout 2022, marking the early stages of their romance. In May 2022, Waller attended an All Elite Wrestling match, followed by several appearances courtside at Aces games that summer and a San Diego Padres game in October, confirming their connection.
The Wedding and Sudden Public Revelation
Kelsey Plum and Darren Waller planned a private wedding ceremony for March 4, 2023, held at a farm in Las Vegas. However, their plans were unexpectedly disclosed by then Las Vegas Raiders head coach Josh McDaniels during a press conference, causing frustration for Waller, who preferred to keep his personal life confidential.
The proposal itself was intimate and understated, occurring during a hike at Torrey Pines State Natural Preserve in San Diego with a photographer secretly arranged by Waller to capture the moment. Reflecting on the event, Waller described:
“We were in San Diego, and we went to Torrey Pines [State Natural Preserve Park], and there’s this hike to where the beach is. We went up on this rock where it’s out on the water, and I had a photographer there. That’s what I had planned for it.”
The wedding followed soon after the January 2023 license acquisition. Plum shared wedding-day photos on Instagram before deleting the post, captioning one moment: Him 🖤 3.4.23. Waller admitted that the wedding was a spontaneous decision, so much so that he did not inform his team prior to getting married.
Long-Distance Challenges After Waller’s Trade
Only days after their honeymoon in Turks and Caicos, Waller was traded from the Raiders to the New York Giants. This sudden relocation to the East Coast forced them into a long-distance marriage, complicating their relationship. Waller reflected on the trade, saying:
“I did not see this coming… It caught me off guard, but it’s the nature of the business.”
The trade ignited speculation about tensions between Waller and McDaniels. Fans criticized McDaniels’ role in the timing of the trade, with one fan on X (formerly Twitter) remarking:
“Darren Waller JUST GOT MARRIED to Kelsey Plum of the Las Vegas Aces, and Josh McDaniels’ wedding present was to trade him to the New York Giants. McDaniels is NOT a romantic.”
Plum responded humorously:
“Prolly ’cause he wasn’t invited to the wedding, lol.”
Despite their efforts using FaceTime and frequent trips to manage the distance, the strain became evident. Divorce rumors surfaced in January 2024 following a TikTok video posted by Waller, but he later clarified that the video was made in jest and insisted all was well in their marriage.
Official Divorce Announcement and Aftermath
Darren Waller and Kelsey Plum formally announced their separation on April 23, 2024, ending their marriage just over a year after their wedding. Plum expressed her heartbreak on X by stating:
“I am devastated. I walked through fire for that man, but now I see it’s time to go.”
The divorce coincided with a turbulent phase for Waller’s career, including a brief retirement followed by a return to the NFL with the Miami Dolphins in early 2025.
Waller’s Musical Expression of the Split
In May 2024, weeks after the divorce was finalized, Darren Waller released a song and music video titled Who Knew (Her Perspective). The project was described by Waller as a therapeutic exercise in understanding and empathy, attempting to process the breakup from Plum’s point of view. In an interview with The Breakfast Club, Waller revealed:
“I’ve struggled with intimacy in romantic relationships my whole life, and I recognize the toll it has taken on the lovers I’ve been close to.”
Significance of Their Relationship and What’s Next
The union of Darren Waller and Kelsey Plum epitomized a high-profile sports couple merging two demanding professional careers. Their rapid marriage and even quicker divorce highlight the difficulties athletes face balancing personal and professional lives, especially when unforeseen career moves require geographic separation.
Their split also serves as a reminder of the impact that team decisions, such as trades, can have beyond the field, influencing players’ private lives in profound ways. With Waller returning to professional football in 2025 and Plum continuing her basketball career with the Los Angeles Sparks, both athletes appear poised to focus on their sports futures while navigating life post-divorce.
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Prolly cause he wasn’t invited to the wedding lol https://t.co/K3i7oW5oe4
— Kelsey Plum (@Kelseyplum10) March 15, 2023
— Kelsey Plum (@Kelseyplum10) April 23, 2024
